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But it's interesting to wonder if the images we see every week of stress-free, happiness-enhancing parenthood aren't in some small, subconscious way contributing to our own dissatisfactions with the actual experience, in the same way that a small part of us hoped getting "the Rachel" might make us look just a little bit like Jennifer Aniston.

但有趣的是，我们每周看到的那些无忧无虑、充满幸福感的父母形象，是否在某种程度上、潜移默化地加剧了我们对实际育儿体验的不满？就像我们内心深处曾希望剪个‘瑞秋头’就能稍微像詹妮弗·安妮斯顿一点那样。

This is a subtle form of peer pressure: we unconsciously imitate the behavior we see every day.

这是一种微妙的同辈压力：我们无意识地模仿每天看到的行为。

Millions of Americans and foreigners see G.I.

数百万美国人和外国人看到GI

But with homework counting for no more than 10% of their grades, students can easily skip half their homework and see very little difference on their report cards.

但由于家庭作业在成绩中所占比例不超过10%，学生完全可以跳过一半的作业，而成绩单上的变化却微乎其微。

The research of Till Von Wachter, the economist at Columbia University, suggests that not all people graduating into a recession see their life chances dimmed: those with degrees from elite universities catch up fairly quickly to where they otherwise would have been if they had graduated in better times; it is the masses beneath them that are left behind.

哥伦比亚大学的经济学家蒂尔·冯·瓦赫特的研究表明，并非所有在经济衰退期间毕业的人都会看到自己人生机会的减少：那些毕业于顶尖大学的人很快就能赶上原本在经济状况更好的时期毕业所应达到的水平；而他们之下的人群则被远远甩在后面。